Muses & making sense

12:53 PM

Quotes are taken from here. (A facebook page)


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"If you ignore me, I will ignore you. If you don't start the conversation, we wont talk. If you don't put in the effort, why should I?"

Well, the above is true..in a way. We like to think that the other person needs to start the ball rolling. But if the other person thinks the same as us, then there won't be any balls rolling.

Point is, YOU must start it yourself. Who knows, he/she might become your best friend.

Don't worry about 'What if they just ignore me or don't put in their own effort to know me more?'.

At the very least, YOU have tried. YOU have proven to yourself that you have the confidence to start something.

And YOU are happier from that courage. :)

And it's their loss if they ignore you, not YOURS.

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"If you admire the rainbow after the rain, then why not love again after the pain?"

-Sigh- Because most of the time, we would rather entertain the Pain as some great feeling to enjoy than accept it as the cold, hard stone it is.

We would rather wallow in self pity than thinking of happy times/memories.

We think, 'Why did THIS happen to me, why don't others go through the same as me?'.

Yeah, we think, 'Life's not fair.'

BUT

That is life. WE make the most of it. Nothing comes without a price.

If there's no price, how would you appreciate it?

For a Gain, there have to be a Loss.

And life is not technically unfair. We make it seem unfair. When in reality, we have lots to be thankful for. However, when we couldn't get what we WANT, we tend to neglect what we NEED.

-Sigh- I fail as a motivational writer. Heck, I myself wallow in self pity, unable to accept that cold, hard stone.

But, I don't want to miss out on other things that could make me happy.

So, let's be positive.

Even if life might seem unfair, YOU can change that.

ps: Yea, why am I suddenly so wise, heck, nothing to do with Age. Guess it's experience kicking in some senses. Haha

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